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Assertiveness, Not Arrogance: How to Clearly Ask for What You Want authenticity effectivecommunication emotionalintelligence leadershipskills personaldevelopment professionaldevelopment selfawareness Aug 27, 2025

Recently, I encountered an idea that troubled me: the notion of "healthy arrogance." To be clear, arrogance, by definition, is neither healthy nor beneficial. When someone suggests that arrogance is a...

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Why Going Home Feels So Complicated—And How to Handle It with Consciousness and Compassion emotionalgrowth emotionalintelligence mindfulness personaldevelopment selfawareness Aug 20, 2025

There’s a strange emotional dissonance that can surface when you return “home.”

A place that once held your roots now feels slightly foreign.

The house is the same, but you’ve changed.

You recogniz...

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Triggers in Politeness: Why ‘I’m Fine’ Can Be a Red Flag authenticity emotionalintelligence mindfulness personaldevelopment selfawareness Aug 13, 2025

How many times have you said, "I'm fine," when you weren’t?

I know I have—more times than I can count. In moments of disappointment, frustration, sadness, or even deep pain, I’ve defaulted to those t...

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When You’re Productive but Still Feel Behind emotionalgrowth emotionalintelligence personaldevelopment selfawareness selfworth Aug 06, 2025

I recently had one of those days where I had checked off every task on my to-do list. Emails sent. Calls made. Deadlines met. By every external measure, it had been a productive day. But inside, I fel...

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I Thought I Was Just Tired—Turns Out I Was Emotionally Overstimulated emotionalintelligence mindfulness selfawareness Jul 30, 2025

A few weeks ago, I found myself in a familiar state—exhausted. Not just sleepy or worn out, but bone-deep tired in a way that felt disproportionate to what I had actually done that day. I hadn’t exerc...

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When Fear Replaces Respect: What India’s Rulebook Reveals About Emotional Intelligence and Cultural Identity culturalidentity emotionalintelligence indianculture Jul 23, 2025

This is taken from an economics time article where this example comes from - see the Article why all Indians are rule breakers

If you’ve ever sipped a cold Kingfisher beer in Mumbai without a permit,...

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Internal Resonance: The Quiet Power of Motivation That Lasts authenticity emotionalintelligence personaldevelopment selfawareness Jul 16, 2025

We live in a world that often runs on pressure. Deadlines. Expectations. Social approval. Performance reviews. Grades. Metrics. Rules.

And while these external motivators can certainly get people to ...

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Empathy: The Quiet Strength That Holds Us Together communication emotionalgrowth emotionalintelligence empathy personaldevelopment selfawareness Jul 09, 2025

In a world that moves fast, speaks loud, and rewards the boldest voice in the room, empathy can feel like a forgotten language. We’re flooded with information, choices, and distractions—but rarely do ...

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When School Admissions Feel Personal: Why This Process Hits So Deep emotionalintelligence emotionalparenting parentingjourney Jul 02, 2025

Let’s talk about something few people admit out loud: how emotionally loaded it can be to go through the school admission process for your child—especially in a big, competitive city like Mumbai.

At ...

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When Strength Isn’t in Taking a Side: Choosing Presence Over Polarity emotionalintelligence leadershipdevelopment mindfulness personaldevelopment Jun 25, 2025

A friend recently shared a beautiful story about a dinner conversation with a remarkably seasoned leader. It wasn’t the title or position of the individual that struck me—it was the response he gave w...

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When Life Isn’t Going Your Way: A Mindset Shift That Changes Everything emotionalintelligence growth mindfulness personaldevelopment Jun 13, 2025

Recently, I heard a well-known Instagram personality say something that stopped me in my tracks, summarizing the words it speaks about how if you’re not happy in life, it’s not because life is wrong—i...

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How to Create Change Within Yourself (Without Losing Who You Are) authenticity confidence emotionalintelligence mindfulness personaldevelopment selfawareness Jun 04, 2025

A kinder, more effective approach to personal growth and confidence development

When most people pursue personal development, they often begin with a harsh inner monologue:

“I need to fix this part ...

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